Start with reading for yourself first.> Yes that's how I started. Usually I teach to shuffle with your question in mind. When I shuffle I do so til the cards tell me to stop (not as weird as it sounds) > Ditto and I am programmed to find the answers in the middle of the deck so for example after I shuffle I will automatically split the deck into 3 piles allowing the deck to tell me where to split it and then reassembling the card deck with the middle pile on the top. There lies the answers.> I use to take from the top or bottom. Now I tend to fan the deck out and pick the one that "talks" to me hahaSo start with those steps first.> Good advice